Asking her out

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Hi Didi,

I’m always nervous when asking women out.

Have you got any advice on how to get her to say ‘yes’ to a first date?

Ben M.

Dear Ben,

There isn’t any guarantee that she will say yes but there are a few things you could do to improve your chances.

Say you’ve just noticed a women from across the room and you’d like to get to know her. You can’t just walk over and ask her out, you need to strike up a conversation first, so think of an opening line – something that could lead to small talk.

Women want to feel noticed and appreciated, so make her feel special give an honest compliment. Follow this with a warm touch on the arm, a confident look in her eyes always helps. Use this time to work out if she’s into you, watch her body language to see if there is chemistry between you both. There’s no point in asking her out if she is just not interested.

You don’t have to be overly romantic, be sweet and just be yourself, never act like someone different to get a date.

Best of luck,

Didi xx

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One Comment to “Asking her out”

1. Christie says:

   March 16, 2010 at 2:42 am

   Didi, you always know the right thing to say. Good luck Ben!